You’ve found your person, so why is it so hard? 

I work with couples at many stages. Whether you’re deciding if they’re the “one”, grappling with new stresses, dealing with infidelity, or seeking to build a new spark, I help couples build new communication strategies, express themselves authentically, and respond to conflict better.  

Using evidence-based treatment, we will increase your awareness of what happens when conflict arises in your relationship, and how to resolve issues in new, productive ways. I am a Gottman Level 3 couples therapist, which means that I have expertise and experience in supporting couples through some of life's hardest hurdles. 

My clients trust that I will not let them just "rehash" old fights. I will help both partners learn how to be in conversation, and conflict, in healthier ways. You can expect that couples therapy will be an active, structured experience, where both partners are increasing their skills and reaching their own goals. 

Please send me an email to schedule a free consultation, so that we can discuss what's bringing you to couples therapy and how we can help you create the relationship you want. therapist emily uhar female woman women grief therapist loss therapist miscarriage stillbirth abortion couples cheating infidelity gottman therapist imago therapy imago therapist gottman therapist cheating therapist stillbirth therapist miscarriage therapist miscarriage therapy stillbirth therapy therapist anxiety depression trauma emily uhar therapist counseling mental health help worries stress therapist therapy new york new york city connecticut vermont virginia therapist new york therapist nyc woman therapist talk therapy brooklyn queens